The destruction of a person will be in the hands of his parent, if not, in his wife’s, and again if not, in his relative’s. They will blame him for his failure to earn his living, drift him into deeds of which he is incapable, and ultimately make him get involved in dark and dangerous deeds, at the cost of his destruction.
(Abu Naim; Gelecegin Tarihi 1 (The History of Future1), p.29)